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Book Recommendation: Tomorrow will be Different

Book Recommendation: Tomorrow will be Different

Author: Jen Graney, Library Director, Cortland Free Library

According to the Human Rights Campaign, there are about 2 million transgender people in the U.S. Although trans folks have gained visibility in recent years, enormous challenges are still faced. These include lack of legal protection; poverty; stigma, harassment, and discrimination; violence; lack of healthcare coverage; accurate identity documents.

To combat these issues, especially for anyone who does not identify as trans, a good starting point is to familiarize yourself with the concepts of gender identity, gender expression, sexual orientation, and gender dysphoria. The National Center for Transgender Equality is a great place to get the basics (and is also a great resource for trans folks to learn about your rights including around security, healthcare, and employment).

Reading someone’s lived experience can be even more impactful. During the month of June, Cortland Free Library has partnered with the Cortland LGBTQ Center for a Community Read of Tomorrow Will Be Different: Love, Loss, and the Fight for Trans Equality, by Sarah McBride, the first transgender state senator in the U.S.

McBride’s account brings the importance of policy and representation to the fore as she navigates the system and advocates for trans people while facing her own challenges. She also emphasizes the importance of good mentors and role models: “Most people are good, no doubt. But when we are faced with issues we haven’t yet thought about or interacted with, we often look to one another for how we should respond. Our behavior models for others the acceptable reaction. Acceptance creates an expectation. While rejection provides an excuse.

Pick up the book from the library (we have several free copies left as of this writing) or if it’s available, download the audiobook via Libby. (It’s a great experience listening to Sarah narrate her own story!). You can also pick up a copy at the Cortland LGBTQ Center.